Basics can get the point across. “Supper’s on!” ” Let’s paint the bedroom.” “Nice picture. Put it on the fridge.” An article in the paper reminded me that to be memorable, a distinctive appellation adds that pizzazz to capture your attention. You may not know that Benjamin Moore’s choice of color for the year is “Raspberry Blush.” A song written in its honor can be found on Spotify. Neither by name nor hue does that attract me. Being in a room that color would lead to an itchy feeling. It calls to a mind the face of a high chair child feeding itself a red treat. The reason for choosing says it is time “to take a step out of the comfort zone.” One does have other choices. “October Mist” a gentle sage green. “Wenge” charcoal gray, and my favorite, “Cinnnamon” which is , of course, rust. In the end you’ll probably say, “Come see the dining room. We painted it a dull blue.”

Morning in the kitchen can get by with , “One scrambled egg with no runny whites.” Or DMS looking at a waiter and saying, “A hamburger well done. BURN IT!” Check out the blog on “Captivating menu descriptions” from the handheld menu to the over 100 selections of names for home food delivery. Younger eaters now like the words locally grown in the presentations along with healthy, naturally. Why else do you eat? Quoting my favorite suggestion: “Grandma’s Sunday gravy. A secret sauce with San Mazano tomatoes and fresh oregano simmered for eight hours and poured over homemade spaghetti.” She either cooked Saturday night or missed church for a mid-afternoon meal.

I did not go to the Metropolitan in New York to brag I had seen Untitled No. 47. I have read that even well known artists use that term to keep the viewer from pre-deciding what the artwork can mean to them. I don’t want that responsibility. Even little hints like Figure Study and Landscape Sketch # 273 point me in the right direction. Classic artists always named the work. When the name is mentioned you see Mona Lisa and Whistler’s Mother. A pause of thankfulness comes to mind standing in front of The Angleus. Even though he wasn’t painting from life, Dali brings a moment of reality to the crucifixion in his Christ of St. John on the Cross. Simplicity counts, even vagueness lends direction, yet at times the right specific word exalts.

 She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.”

Matthew 1:21

Conversation lags. Avoid arguments, yet stir up some interest. Try dropping this sentence in the air, “How many beds have you bought in your life?” Then lean back, fold your hands on your lap and listen. One couple of you fair readers tried a water bed. The tale is that the wife filled it in the bedroom while the husband crawled under the house to be sure the floor wasn’t buckling under the weight. A daughter had a queen size bed delivered to a second story bedroom by way of a crane over a balcony. Men at either end would never have been able to make the curve around a narrow stairwell without being permanently stuck. My history has been a double that I still have from childhood to a king down to a queen and now I have moved to another room and a single for two reasons. It is easier to make up and I don’t have to worry about wearing out sheets on just one side.

Which leads to everything else needed to make that mattress useful. The inclusive term is bedclothes or bed linens, if you’re more picky, that are used over the mattress for hygiene, warmth, and maybe decoration. My mother was white all cotton, line-dry, press the top fold if necessary. I leaned toward wrinkle free colors, but didn’t go far enough to have all match through the bedspread and extra pillows. We had a crocheted bedspread that my husband’s grandmother made for each grandson which looked like the love it represented. However, toes around a sheet went through the loops when one turned over. For awhile it was put in a chair at night and folded at the foot of the bed in the daytime. I don’t know when it became no more. My mother-in-if law had monograms on sheets and pillowcases. Part of naming our daughter Sarah was because she felt monograms looked more impressive with the same letter on either side of the married name. Hers was HSH.

Whatever the term for a now generation is, they are seeking to do away with the top sheet in place of a duvet which, of course, needs a cover over the mundane down or polyester base. WSJ had a article on how and why this is necessary. Maybe the arching necessities are more simple. To have a clean bed is always a treat. To come back to your own bed after a trip says home at last.

In peace I will both lie down and sleep; for you alone, O LORD, make me dwell in safety.

Psalm 4:8

Being saintly has different meanings to different people and in different locations. As a Baptist in South Louisiana, names and attributes floated around the fringes. Four have become more specifically important to me. As a high schooler, one March 19, a group of us got introduced to St. Joseph. I attended the teacher training school on the college campus and our learning to be home economics teachers loaded a group of giggly girls in a car for a night time ride on back roads to visit various Italian homes loaded with a variety of offerings to celebrate the breaking of a drought in Sicily way beyond anyone’s memory. Ladened tables spilled over from the dining room to the front yard. Gathered around under lights strung in tree branches were generations of family, neighbors and a few dogs. I would read announcements of locations in the New Orleans paper, and the church in Ponchatoula still celebrates. I think you have to have a certain ethnic heritage and an abundance of crayfish to properly honor the day.

The saint I try to stay on good terms with is Saint Anthony of Padua, affectionally known as Tony. He first intervened in my life in May, 1985. All the students of a K – 8th grade school were gathered noisedly in the school gym to wrap up an end of year Field Day. I reached up and one of a favorite pair of earrings was gone. I bent down to sweep my hands between moving feet. My Catholic friend questioned why and immediately said, “Stand up, turn around three times, and chant, ‘Tony, Tony, look around. Something’s lost that must be found.'” And, lo, there it was in front of me. Through the years I’ve had other validations, one as recent as this past week. Though that one involved a book that took two months to show up. I still believe.

Then two saints are just women I’m glad I know existed and can call to mind. Julian of Norwich may or may not be canonized depending where you get your information. She is called an anchoress, one who chooses to live alone next to a church and offer wisdom. Her bedrock statement is “all shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.” Some mornings that gives stability to the jello that I feel surrounds me. The last I’ve just learned of. Formally she is designated as St. Thérèse of Lisieux; fondly she is called “Little Flower.” She felt unable to meet the great deeds and miracles of some saints, yet she committed herself to doing small deeds with great love. I can take a deep breath and accomplish one or two of those myself. I feel confident of this. I may not be voted a saint by those who confer the appellation, yet I’ve already been given the reason for trying.

However, you are chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, people who belong to God. You were chosen to tell about the excellent qualities of God, who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light.

1 Peter 2:9

Spoiler Alert! For those who have been faithful and even affirming readers, I want to say I have struggled over this week with an under the skin topic bothering me. This morning I woke up thinking how I can handle it maybe with grace in the last paragraph. If not, you may quit reading, delete, and even write me. Just don’t go away. Life may improve.

Back to title. What isn’t used, or gets messed up, or just goes bad while sitting there must be dealt with. At times someone else can rescue and redeem. Middle son had permission to walk the block on trash day. He came back with treasures like 47 no spring tennis balls and several sheets of drywall to upscale the tree house. Yes, eventually all went out for our trash man. For a bit, they had a second life. A variety of other waste just goes. My earliest memory was a some number gallon garbage can which was put out at edge of our property once or twice a week. In Hammond, ours sat on a 17 brick square to keep the bottom dry. A hand cart was nearby to help my mother roll it out front. The mother of a friend of mine regularly scrubbed hers with clorox. I’m not sure the garbage men either noticed or appreciated.

Probably the most exciting part of trash disposal may not be available now. To make it work, one needs a daddy, a pick-up truck, and a sense of adventure. At times, we had something, (I can’t remember specifics) that needed hauling to the city dump. Those who went put on boots and took gloves. One paid for the privilege of driving to a parking area, looking at a glorious array of whatever, and maybe spotting rodents with long tails as one tossed over the offerings you were adding. The trip made for exciting if unacceptable dinner time conversation. Trash is more classified now. A garbage disposal may be first line of defense. Black and green city bins take care of their assigned contents on schedule. Compostable bags hopefully stay in one piece until yard trash is collected.

Yet one kind of garbage, still trashy, exists. I believe in reading and have cut a wide swarth in my lifetime. I have quit some books a chapter in because I didn’t need the content in my memory or because the writing was so poor I kept reaching for a pencil to correct. Other books, not connected to any part of my life or heritage, I have finished. These gave me a window into pain, or struggles, or even historical truth.Those words helped me understand reality in newspapers or from media reports. I have read myself, taught, and read aloud to my own children books on the banned lists, not to their detriment, I hope. So, my struggle this week is how to allow the same privilege of choice to all without denying the possibility of treasure amidst trash to others. Only one book explicitly states its purpose, and it is all good.

All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the people of God may be complete, equipped for every good work.

2 Timothy 3:16-17

The world is divided into….so step into this narrative wherever you fit. I am a child of the early 20th century and lived in a small town. General news arrived by a morning and evening paper. Various size radios and some phonographs were the entertainment. If an appointment was required for anything, you dialed the appropriate number, called the receptionist by her name (she either went to your church or shopped at the same grocery store) and stated what you needed. She said, “Let me see?” to the sound of flipping pages. The answers were either come on in now or what about next Tuesday. A decision was made, a pencil scraped to write it down, and both of you moved on to other things until the moment of appearing arrived. At some point, the date and time was written on a card to be thumbtacked to a bulletin board unless it was lost in the shuffle. You remembered a little late and called. You might be told to come on. Mrs. Lincoln can wait a bit and all was ok. A big mistake and you just started over with an apology and a new appointment. No extra charge and no group seemed to go out of business.

Moving toward the 21 century and the imperceptible take over of technology. Instead of your writing info on a calendar, some of you entered it on your phone which beeped up reminders of what was in your future. Then multiples of people must have quit paying attention because a forgetting to appear began to carry a financial punishment. Starting weeks ahead if necessary, everything from a haircut to a surgical procedure is delivered to your e-mail or text and requires a response that you have been called to attention of the commitment. In some cases, affirmation requires a portal and a password to perform the asked for reply. Last week one message was so garbled, I called a phone number. After explaining twice and holding back tears, the voice on the other end said, (These are exact words.) “I found the request and verified receipt manually. This matter is taken care of.” I grabbed a cold Root Beer and went to bed.

May this have been tongue in cheek enough to generate a little humor. After a four appointment week, I needed to name what I accomplish by my own consideration of its importance. For years, I got my family up and off in four different directions just by routine and dent of effort. Yes, I did hear, “When are we going to eat?” yet no one starved or was ever malnourished. I meet my own exercise requirements, make my bed, and tend the yard. And I pray over my day. That command once given has never been revoked. I don’t know the whole setting; however, this verse speaks to having responsible bootstraps.

Arise, for it is your task….Be strong and do it!

Ezra 10: 4

The title comes from a 1950’s responsive poem for elementary classes. The rest of the line says, “Makin’ things to grow, Doin’ what I can, Nature’s hired man.” I’m not a master gardener; however, genetically, one of my favorite places is outside “tending” whatever that means at the moment. I had two daddies for whom the morning activity was checking the garden, and they brought me along for the morning lecture. The love I have has been passed on. The three year old I planted anemone bulbs with as she patted the dirt and said, “Sleep tight,” now has pots of cacti and succulents. Middle son as a teen had a ficus begamina tree in his bedroom until the cat tried to climb it. Elder son took me shopping for summer plants on a recent trip to Steamboat.

I have a plot by the back porch that hasn’t quite defined itself: mint, parsley, dill for butterflies, and some amaryllis that needed dividing. This spring was the time to try eatables. I chose spineless okra and Japanese eggplant. Okra and tomatoes are a favorite summer dish and the eggplant was the experiment. Weather matters. High heat and extreme dryness slowed the whole growing process. Forget the eggplant. Squirrels must have out spies. Almost enough length to harvest one day and gone the next morning. The okra has been a learning curve that could require several paragraphs as it is just now coming into its own. I’ve had one side dish and have cut and frozen others for future delight. The most unusual revelation is that okra grows from the back of the flower, pushing the bloom forward until it finally falls off. Apples and peaches come from the center of the blossom as the stem still holds to the tree. Think about that and draw a picture if necessary.

Okra is one of those vegetables that divide the world. The word itself can bring smiles or a stuck out tongue and a gagging sound. A subdivision are those who like it prepared some ways, yet they have an overwhelming dislike for the slimy boiled presentation. Gumbo and mixes with other vegetables are my preference. If I move beyond my resolution for less fried food then a bowl of breaded crispy circles are as good to me as popcorn. Okra needs a summer growing season. The grocery stores of my childhood just had a bin with various sizes dumped all together for you to pick what you wanted. Now they come in plastic boxes; some you will keep and some you will toss. While this experiment in backyard growing may not have been the success I envisioned, I will probably try again next May. After all, even in the desert on the way to freedom, the Israelites still missed the food of what had been home.

We remember the fish we ate in Egypt at no cost—also the cucumbers, melons, leeks, onions and garlic.

Numbers 11:5

Summer is bookended by two federal holidays: Memorial Day and Labor Day. Year after year they provide a week-end of catch your breath for what’s ahead and three months later, wrap all up, gather the backpack, and move ahead. No difficult formula exists. Always the last Monday in May or the first Monday in September. I find it a little amusing that Memorial Day began orginally as a recognition of those who died in the Civil War. It was expanding to all who served in the military with its history ignored at the same time we are tearing down oblesisks in town squares. A good example of moving on to something better without having riots or taking sides. In my lifetime, the obligatory family gathering has included come to Aimwell to clean the family cemetery before eating fried chicken, deviled eggs, and apple pie. We told family stories and shared plans for the summer.

Camps, vacations, fireworks. The sun rays reach north to shine directly on the Tropic of Cancer and imperceptibly change direction to move south again. School supplies begin appearing on shelves of various shops. Toes scrunch against the ends of shoes worn in May. The time comes for another gather together time. Some schools and 2 -a-day football have already started. Not very many are celebrating a Labor Union providing a long week-end for workers, yet this is the last opportunity to count on children not being on site at school for Monday through Friday. If close enough, some first time college students come home to prove they have survived on their own. Food is grilling hamburgers and bar-b-que and the last cold juiciness of red watermelon. Fall begins with a four day week.

Every holiday should count for its reason, its memories, and its impetus to forward motion. Israel lived by a lunar calendar, marked by a sliver of a new moon in the sky. Spotters were placed on hillsides to watch. At the first appearance, a fire was lighted to be seen from afar and a trumpet sounded to herald a change. Families gathered for feasts at the new month. Part of reason for congregating was to offer thanks for the cycle that had passed and guidance for the one to come. In one way, a new time began September 5. Consider where we have been and where we are going and remember what is important.

On the day of your gladness also, and at your appointed feasts and ^jat the beginnings of your months, you shall blow the trumpets over your burnt offerings and over the sacrifices of your peace offerings. They shall be a reminder of you before your God: I am the Lord your God.”

Numbers 10:10

Ancient, modern, a child’s first stepl History can be a happening to remember , or like today, can be a moment to be noted. My computer is on a live stream of the moving of Battleship Texas from San Jacinto to the drydock in Galveston for repairs and restoration. Each step of the twelve hour journey is fraught (I spend my whole life looking for an opportunity to use that word) with problems resulting from strain on the fragile one hundred ten year hull. Guard tugs are towing and protecting and only a few specially designated boats with high ranking officials are able to follow at a distance to minimize waves and disruptions.

Just a few words of background to validate her specialness. Texas was commissioned in 1913. During her lifetime, she has transported troops in two wars, been a training vessel, and was part of the landing ships on D-Day, helping rescue the Rangers who were trapped on the cliff. She was decommissioned in 1948 and with the help from nickels from school children was given a home at San Jacinto Historical Site. There she became part of our family memory. The summer of 1969, a friend and I did field trips with our combined brood of six from age 8 to 10 months. One stop was a picnic and then a tour of the Texas. One adult led going down steep narrow stairs to see small dark sleeping spaces and another adult encouraged the last ones who were holding on tight to a rail as they took steps.

Even though we live in air and easily watch planes move through space above us, a certain mystic and danger surrounds being out on the water. We revere the boats that can displace enough of the liquid to float and can name ones from special times. The USS Constitution is the oldest ship still commissioned and is used for education purposes in Boston Harbor. I thought of a line in Emerson’s poem ,”Aye, tear her tattered ensign down, long has it waved on high,” as a flag stirred in a morning breeze on the Houston Ship Channel. The earliest Books of Common Prayer had special offerings acknowledging God’s control over land and sea and requesting safety for travelers. A full chorus singing The Navy Hymn provides solemnity for any occasion. May the twelve hours of this move of Texas be blessed by the request of the Psalmist so many years agol

He stilled the storm to a whisper;
    the waves of the sea were hushed.
 They were glad when it grew calm,
    and he guided them to their desired haven.

Psalm 107:29 – 30

However you name the kingdoms of life, humans have to fit in Animals, like it or not. This is the season of the year we can closely observe our own changes by watching the choices of our winged friends. You know how it begins: eggs, hatchlings, feeding , growing, and that moment comes when soft downy feathers disappear, space in the nest becomes a premium and something has to go. With the change comes a time to try exploring the world, though not entirely independently. The definitive term is a fledgling.

Adults have a very active part in this happening and I’ve watched it three different times. The first occurrence was at the end of a dirt road in Dayton, TX. Our small house was in front of a stand of several large pecan trees. One morning the air was ripped by screeches of a frightening decibel level. Little boys and I ran to the back yard. Two hawks were swooping and turning in a DNA formation. Soon we figured that one was less comfortable with flying and trying to come back to the tree while the adult kept edging it into the sky. As surety of motion built, the noise lessened, until finally the younger made a few turns on its own before heading to a limb to perch. On Rice Blvd., the cardinals that led that year’s brood to the feeder were more gentle. Parents and a light brown youngster lined up on the electric wire leading to the house. I really thought the little one was going spin upside down. Parents edged closer and finally nudged him into space. At the same time they took places on each side and guided him to land on the deck. Somehow they managed to chase him up toward the bird feeder and then back to the electric wire. This was a process they repeated until he could map the circuit on his own. Number three example starts with a large nest in the oak tree at the end if the Swift driveway. It was built several years ago by a pair of black crown night herons. They are migratory. We know when they return because the street has a patch of white droppings to mark the location of the nest. The sequence goes from only an adult who comes and goes, to as many as three fuzzy heads peeking over edge to finally the family of four lined up on the limb. At some magic moment, we have three long legged adolescents exploring our yard. I’ve never seen them fly down or return to the nest. One day they are all gone.

I just learned this week that having an empty nest is important for the adults. This is the season of the year they molt, getting rid of flight feathers that show the wear of summer activity. You may find the single tail feather in the grass during this time. I thought of fledglings and molting with the beginning of school yet again. I heard 7:45 chatter as parents walked children down the two blocks to Roberts, our neighborhood school. For some of you, it was not small hands to hold; it was handing over a plane ticket to a college town and independence you weren’t sure you or they were ready to receive. As life has circled, we all have been in one place or another, either taking a step onward or regrouping to be a part of what is next.

There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.

Ecclesiastes 3:1

The phrase is “Beauty and magic are in the eye of the beholder.” Fifty years ago our family made the Houston to Boerne trip for week-ends with the larger family. We usually arrived after dark. One evening we took the exit from the freeway north to New Braunfels. A large empty field to the east of the curve was alive with the movement of fireflies. A small visionary voice said, “Ohh, look at the little stars.” Then an older brother’s tone of reason cut in. ‘Fireflies only blink if the temperature is over 50 degrees.” Both statements were correct. I thought of that evening after reading a short column about a yearly August happening. In my childhood it was the surprise magic appearance of a “shooting star,” a unsuspected burst that arched momentarily through the dark heavens.

The scientific voice says this mid-August delight is called by astronomers the Perseid meteor shower. Under the best conditions 50 to 100 flares of fast moving bits of ice, dust, or rock can be seen when the Earth moves through the debris trail of a comet or meteor. The heat generated by the friction between debris and molecules in the atmosphere creates the light. At least three times, I have been in situations where the frequency of spotting the flares would be more predictable. I have lain on a quilt in a pasture in West Texas listening to the rhythmical chomping of grass by two horses who whooshed air when they came too close to this strange object in their locale. Some of you at a much younger age sat in pajamas with me on a upper deck at Live Oak Ranch and asked where you were supposed to watch. The most elaborate viewing was a year when a number of unparalleled sightings was to occur. One of the teen nephews drove the red pickup truck down the road away from the light of the house windows. He may have even dragged a mattress out to put in the bed of the truck. Ten cousins and me (other wiser adults sat on the porch) sat, lay, and dozed while calling out, “There went one!” or the frustrated cry of, “I just missed it.”

The pages of the scientific discussion are not what we remember. It is the feeling of warm bodies huddled and the momentary light streaks that remain etched on our memory, Most events are explained by reason. We provide the magic in our reaction to whatever, from dry ice creating boiling water to cutting an apple crossways and seeing the star made by the seed. Delicate mushrooms push their way through the earth where none were the day before. My favorite is the child who answered why God made rainbows with “So angels had something to slide on.” Dawn gives shape each day to forms that look as if they have vanished in the night. It’s magic!

 Daylight makes the hills and valleys stand out like the folds of a garment, clear as the imprint of a seal on clay.

Job 38:14